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Why can't I last long during sex?

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Question - (9 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2011)
A male Ethiopia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

1.I am now 30. I have been suffering from haemorrhoids for the last eight yrs.And I found myself not satisfying my sexual partner. I ejaculate very soon. I can not stay more than few seconds. Do you think the hemorrhoids can be causes for my sexual problem?

2.I also practice masturbation. I have been doing this thing for the last 12 yrs.could this also be a reason for my premature ejaculation?

What coping strategies should I use so as to get rid of this problem

plsssssssssssssss help ?

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A male reader, Daniel the love doctor United States +, writes (11 September 2011):

Daniel the love doctor agony auntI'm sorry you are experiencing this problem. Masturbation CAN have an effect on your stamina/how soon you ejaculate, and ability to maintain an erection.

I believe this article that I've written for this site (especially what I wrote for tip #2) can benefit you, as well as the anonymous commenter: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guys-what-to-do-if-youre-suffering-from.html

Wishing you the best! :^)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011):

The Ejaculation Trainer from Matt Gorden should help.

I'm in the same boat at the moment, and trying to get out of this PE Problem.

It costs a bit, and may cost a bit more to cure.

But i'm thinking, i don't care what the price is aslong as it helps me overcome this problem.

Try using Durex Performa Condoms too.

But masturbation does teach us to finish early. Our mind is set to finish early while masturbating.

- Remain Calm

- Breath Slowly

- Keep Relaxed

- Don't think too much about sex while having sex

- Girl ontop as the first position helps alot

Defo try some of these, hopefully they'll work for me too.

Good Luck man! Your not the only one out there, and im tryna get rid of this problem before i hit my 20's

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