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writes:Hi, I am 15 years old and I am bit worried! A lot of my friends talk about their boyfriends and how many they have had and stuff like that and I have never had one boyfriend in my whole life! Everyone says I have such a funny and likeable personality and that I'm pretty but they just don't seem to like me. I get attention from boys though but not the sort of attention I want, like I am going into town and I am just minding my own business and they like shout things at me like you're fit, get your tits out, what's your name gorgeous and I just don't understand why cant I just get a boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): i know this may sound weird but are you gay? have you thought about it because if your not feeling it from boys when they call you sexy and stuff then maybe your not into boys, i might not be right but its just a sugestion hope ive helped
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reader, pinkipod109  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 I'm not saying i'm any expert in this, but from what i've seen from my friends and even myself, it seems like whenever you're LOOKING for someone to date, you kind of end up with the WORST guy imaginable. We're young! Live life, be vibrant, don't let yourself close up. Be open to things. When you're open to a lot of things, and you make yourself noticeable without trying too hard (mainly just being yourself), you'll find a REALLY nice guy. Trust me, this is from experience and observation. Good luck!
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reader, diffy116 +, writes (1 January 2009):
Don't worry about it. When I was your age the same thing happened to me. The first boyfriend I ever had was when I was 18 and since then I've only had one other. My younger sister on the other hand, always seems to be in relationships. Don't worry yourself about these things... you're still young and you should be picky about who you date. I never had any luck in high school, but college and beyond are completely different realms where there are more opportunities of mingling with new people. Good luck and keep smiling :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Stop looking for one:) You will somehow bump into a really great guy when you least expect it. You are "only" 15 why the hurry?
There is nothing wrong with being 15 and not having a boyfriend. It just means that you haven't met one worthy of you just yet. And it's good that you don't fall for bullcrap from guys who hit on you. Those just aren't worth a darn.
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Dear, If want to have a good boyfriend then you have to wait for that. If you make a quick decision then it will not be good for the future or lasting in life so better go slow and wait for your guy.You know what “you don’t need to go for him, He will come to you”It's not a matter how you look, how your personality is, are sexy or not, are you rich or not. It will be just chemistry between 2 souls. When he will come to you then 100% you will feel it in your self.Dear you have to learn from now… HOW TO WAIT because the person who can wait that person can win. Don’t care about your friend's comments or don’t feel upset for that.THE PERFECT MAN WILL COME TO YOU AT THE PERFECT TIME……..I wish you very good luck and I hope you will have that patience. Take carearianz(I am not good in English, so if my any word makes you hurt please forgive me)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): heyxim 15 too and i was DESPERATE for a serious relationship. I would go out depressed and just get with strangers just becoz i felt lonely and couldnt understand why noone wanted me so i just assumed i was this fat, ugly nobody. But the truth is i liked the idea of having a serious relationship, but now i am in one it isnt as fantastic as most girls say. Honestly, everyone always just make evrything three times as exiting as they actually are and not having a boyfreind isnt bad, tbh its normal! Besides, do u want to be easy? just wait and find the perfect boy when you are ready..coz to be honest u can do wateva urself anyway!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Don't worry about it!You know what? I felt the same what you do, when I was your age. But even though I really wished I had a boyfriend, I didn't want to "make out" with strangers like my friends did. I wanted a lasting relationship.I got my first boyfriend when I was 20! And you know what? It was totally worth waiting!Trust me. If you didn't find a boyfriend in high school, you'll surely find one in college.
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