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*tewie232
writes:ok well i am i junior and i havent had a gf since i was in the 7th grade. my last gf turned lesbian a few months after we went out. but she went out with other guys after me so im pretty sure it was me. i get compliments on my eyes like hourly. and i wear nice clothes. like hollister and american eagle. i wear vans for shoes and sometimes i wear forces. i am not ugly for sure. like people say i am cute but like not hot hot. so i guess im like average. and like i try to talk to girls who are way out of my league. and like for some reason i act super retarded around a girl i like. any comments??
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (28 August 2008):
 It's not the clothes you wear, it's how you wear them.
What that means its that what matters is your attitude. You've already got the looks, but not probably the attitude to go with it. Confidense in one self would desplay and spread towards others and make others be attracted to you.
In the other hand, the girls may be intimidated by you. They might actually you're out of THEIR league and no chance to get you, so they don't even try to save them the humiliation.
Also, have you tried to persue the girls? There are lots of girls who still believe that guys should take the first step, even if their feelings for them are strong. Probably you didn't make yourself too clear.
But in the other hand, it may just be bad luck. There have been really good looking, all-around nice guys that don't end up having girlfriends in high school for some odd reason. Just wait until you get to college, and you'll probably hit the jackpot there.
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