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writes:Why can't I get over my ex-boyfriend? It's been six and half years since we broke up. He has moved on but I cant seem to let go. We were together for seven years, he's my first and only love. I need help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): hi . I can relate, 8 years ago I broke up with M and thought it was never again until I looked him up 4 yrs ago and it was baaaack to the same feelings, wishes, thoughts on him/us everything, for the past 4 yrs its been back and forth agony. we live far apart but talked every week at least.. i went to visit him (different country) and i thought this time was it, we have to be together forever. but the same issues came up (infidelity,emotional and close to physical abuse) and those are weighty issues, so I know I must deal with myself and move on, let it go.
tell yourself you are not crazy, you are a sensitive, caring human being and that you felt this deeply for someone means that you are more than capable of being in another realtionship, and this time you have the one-up on experience w/ a guy. keep your heart open, life is too precious.
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