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writes:Hi yeah i am only 19 years old I like girls but when i get horny the first thing that comes to my mind is gay sex, but when i am not horny anymore my mind tells me i am not gay,but i start to think and want guys in my life sexually everyday.....i don't even get that much aroused by girls anymore just guys i fantasize about am i gay or bisexual....but when i recently had an experience with a guy it was not that great (actually bad). I was not into it at all; i was not nervous or anything; I just was not into what was going on. So with that i guess i like gay porn and stuff but not the actually sex part. As i said I am not aroused by girls that much anymore; could it be I have sorta convinced myself to being gay (because of the fantasies and stuff) that I have/am blocking out any sexually thought or anything about women,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): Where does it start a thought,thoughts are powerfull.Where did these feelings come from a thought makes sence YOU look at gay porn than you fantisies about it and thats were it starts in some cases.Your what thinking that your gay,probly b/c of the porn your getting less and less atractive to woman but that is to your own doing.Your not into doing gay sex,so don't do it and try to watch less and then stopping.If you cant tell a friend to put a block to porn on your computer.Thats most likely the only way to fixt his unless you want to continue something you do not like.YOU like the gay porn but not the guys so you would you continue on this path?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): ask yourself questions like do you love men? do you really want a relationship with a man? can you see yourself living with a man sexually? you have to be honest with yourself if the answer to these questions is no then your not gay
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reader, Aunt Phyllis  +, writes (15 October 2008):
Hmm, well first of all take your time. At 19 many young people are still finding their sexuality and sex drive. I believed I was asexual until I was 18 and met the right guy. In a similar way I watch lots of porn and often lesbian porn or I will be looking at the female rather than the male. In real life I am in no way attracted sexually to women. I think everyone's different. It takes the right person not just the right gender. Just because you are attracted to women doesn't mean you will be sexually attracted to every woman you meet, the same goes with men. Don't rush things, wait for someone special to arrive and answer all your questions for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Take a step back - firstly it doesn't matter what you are. Whether you are gay, bi or straight actually has nothing to do with what you say in your mind or who you think you "like" but with sexual attraction. If you are attracted to guys and not girls probably gay, and if both then bi. It sounds like you need to clear your mind.
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