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Why can't I get him off my mind?

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Question - (15 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *ufb writes:

I'm ready to give up on life, ive tried and tried to get the love of my life of my mind. I just don't know what to do anymore, everything ive been told makes sense but i just cant seem to do anything about it. Its unbeleivable how much i love this guy. Its hopeless, i can't understand it. why can't i be happy and get him off of my mind? every minute of every day im thinking about him, and thats not a lie, is love supposed to hurt so much? Ive been through depression, an attempted suicide (od on drugs), and so much more. please help someone

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2007):

Does this guy know how you feel ? Yes, love does hurt. And its a bitch isnt it. I know it probly feels like your never going to stop hurting, but eventually you will think about him less. Trust me, slowly but surely you will find other things to do and think about. You have tried to get him out of your mind and obviously you cant, so you will just have to let it run its course. Your obviously unhappy and at a bad point, so maybe seeing a counceller will help. You probly think you dont need to, but you will come to a point when you will probly really need one. Is this guy older than you ? It seems like your insecure and need support and someone to love you, thats why you cant let this guy go. Because you thought you might be able to get what you need from him . If you want to talk more, dont hesitate to message me. I would like to help more and indepth.

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A female reader, Annonymous247 United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2007):

Hi im sorry to here of your situation as it is extremely heart breaking! i am currently going through exactly the same thing and could do with some support of people too. i seen your Question in the front page and it is worded exactly the same way as i would put it in my case. im sorry i have no answers for your Question but am here if u need a chat just mail me...perhaps we could talk about it to eachother? Sorry i havnt been of much help!

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