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writes:Hi everyone, im new here! I heard this place is pretty good with advice so im going to see if you people can re assure me that im doing the right thing.I met a girl over the internet through a friend, now i love her, met her, and well, feel like shes the only girl for me and i would absolultely do anything for her and she would do the same.At first there was nothing, but we felt attracted to each other, but during the next few weeks we began to feel very attracted to the point where we were communicating non stop through msn. It progressed from msn to webcam, and from webcam to phone convos (even while on webcam on msn) which lasted and still last for hours.lolThat went on for about a month or two and we decided we needed to meet up cos our feelings grew too strong. She lives only 1 hour and a half train journey away but still yknow...I met her spent the weekend with her and realised shes the girl of my dreams. we have so much in common, we act the same, and love each other so much we kissed three times in that weekend (were both shy) the problem is that her mum and dad are very wary and at first didnt want me to be with her, so they tried manipulating her by telling her there are plenty of fish in the sea and etc...After that weekend id made plans to go in two weeks time but when she told her dad (shes 18 and im 19) he was like 'but were going away and we cant leave you two in the house' so he obviously thought we would got up to having sex and everything, which is untrue since we are both christians and don't really believe in sex before marriage.She is my gf already and her parents now know that cos last night they had a confrontation where her dad threatened her so she left the house. She decided to go bk to her home to talk to them later on and poured her heart out about how she felt about me...we love each other so much we would do anything for each other and we actually see a future together! which is an amazing thing, and tbh i cant imagine my life with anyone else.they talked but it ended in her parents accepting we are in a relationship, but the tough bit is that after i see her in three weeks they will only let me stay every 6 weeks, its not that long, but its long. i suppose thats only so that i get to know the parents and they get to know me, so they shud cool down and let me stay more regularly in the future...i know i probably havent explained the whole thing as much as i can, but im tired lol. any input would be amazing!!!!! is 6 weeks too much?:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): It sounds like there scared of letting their little girl grow up and think she's too young to know what love is. By only letting you stay every 6 weeks this is slowing your relationship down. I think that is totally unreasonable.
I suggest you go to see her for day trips, which will mean you can see her when you like but also show her parents how dedicated you are to her. Could she visit you?
At the end of the day you are both adults and no one can tell you what you can and cant do.
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