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writes:I've started seeing a girl now we met before christmas and she's a great person. For some odd reason though I'm starting to question whether I should be in a relationship at all as I have always found it difficult to connect to someone. I don't know how it happened as my parents loved and cared for me, but I was bullied for 5 years (all of high school) and it might be that I can't talk aout my problems anymore becase of the bullying and that I can't talk to my friends about them.I have had a girlfriend before (sort of) but she ended up sleeping with her ex. We had only been together for a month. Can anyone give me an idea as to why I can't connect to someone I care about, and if so what should I do to solve it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): We might be able to mutually help one another as I think my partner may have been bullied in the past. I love him dearly, but I am finding it ever so difficult to form a connection with him. He seems to keep me at arm's length, reluctant to answer questions and deepen the relationship. I am starting to feel like he doesn't care about me. I am trying to be there for him, but nothing seems to work. Do you think this describes you and that your girlfriend felt that you don't care about her?
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