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*iss shy..22
writes:hii got with my new boyfriend , i was a virgin untill i got with him, we have had sex loads of times, but when we have oral or full sex i can never come no matter what, is there something wrong with me, my boyfriend gets upset coz he cant make me, that makes me feel bad, why canti come please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): my boyfriend doesnt cum when i give oral sex
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with you. For a women to orgasm is not as easy or mechanical as it for a man. You just haven't found what works for you. Keep trying different things, positions, techniques. All sorts of stuff. Eventually you'll hit the bullseye. And until, you do, you'll have a lot fun trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Don't stress about it. Nothing is wrong with you. The only way to know your turn-ons and how to orgasm is practice. Try different things to see what works. If you don't come with straight oral, try stimulating yourself with your finger at the same time (that works for me). The point here is this: you will know what works for you when find it, if it doesn't work for you, it doesn't make you wrong. Don't be afraid to ask your partner to adjust his actions (harder, softer, slower, faster, etc.), it will make it better for both of you eventually.
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reader, miss shy..22 +, writes (8 August 2008):
miss shy..22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh iv slept with him loads of times, iv never came or orgasm
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reader, daletom  +, writes (8 August 2008):
The following threads may be helpful:
"What is an orgasm?" at [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-an-orgasm1.html]
"I can't orgasm through penetrative sex" at [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-orgasm-through-penetrative-sex.html]
"I am not sure I ever had an orgasm though we have a very active sex life..." at [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-sure-i-ever-had-an.html]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Do you mean orgasm or actually cuming?!
Coz since you were a virgin, it takes a few times before you can orgasm, and its something that will just come naturally. Its certainly not your boyfriends fault.
Most women don't 'cum' like that.
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