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WHY can't he move on???

Tagged as: Breaking up, Cheating, Dating, Friends, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *davis 03 writes:

Ok well I was with my boyfriend 1 and a half and 8 months ago, he cheated on me and he confessed to me he had sex with his former friend, I gave him a second chance. And throughout the time people kept telling me stuff about him and what he did with that girl. I would tell him and as for me to trust him I would leave it alone. I thought we were a perfect couple same stories came back into our lives about that girl which I hated so bad and I had just commented about it and out of no were he tells me he is tired of all this drama and that he needs space and I said fine then I tell him I need space too, to find out if he is worth fighting and then tells me he doesn't want me to leave cuz he wants me.

So that goes one for like 2 days and out of no were he disappears with his friend and then he tells me he doesn't know if he loves me any more. But I can see it in his eyes he still does. So he breaks up with me I saw him the day after he desided that and then he was like trying to kiss me and kept crying. It was really hard for me to see him like that because I'm not ready to let go but I am acting I am. He asked to be friends and he still texts me like nothing happen and I am weak so I textd him back. But should I move on? I love him very much and I still have a feeling he's gonna come back but y does he still contacts me if he doesn't love me ne more?

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A female reader, josephy France +, writes (10 June 2009):

josephy agony auntstay with him if you want to but put some conditions do not let him think you will forgive him as what he did is not okay and who loves won't cheat

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