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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:During oral sex my boyfriend gets himself close to cumming and his breathing changes and all these normal things but he can't!! I'm pretty sure it's not me because he has no problem with handjobs and when he's in the shower he can't. In pretty sure it's the fact that that area is wet... Any tips??? Thanks :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 September 2013):
 I don't know.... my ex husband told me I was the only woman ever to be able to make him cum from oral. He wishes I could teach his current wife how to do it... I have no clue what i did different or I would tell you.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 September 2013):
 In my opinion, "olderthandirt" has it right. Some guys either don't really enjoy oral, or they think that cumming into a girlfriend's mouth is somehow nasty. I was fortunate to have a number of girlfriends and a wife who all enjoyed it, even craved it, so perhaps you could express such a desire to him.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (30 September 2013):
 Maybe he doesn't really enjoy oral sex. Some guys don't. They were raised to see it as a taboo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2013): Ask him or maybe get a cockring for when you are giving him a BJ. I'm getting one today for my OH it intensifies the feeling. I wouldnt read to much into it. When I cum I have to rub MYSELF in a certain way or I can't cum. My other half has tried many times, he would get so frustrated but in the end we had to accept that I can only do it myself. A man is no different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2013): By the sound of it, he does reach climax, but doesn't cum during oral/hand-job. Some people are just like that, I know that many women get orgasms but they don't squirt. You can ask him about this, besides it's your sex life too and you should not feel afraid to ask, hope this helps.
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