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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I fight with my wife constantly. I realize that right now we are under alot of stress with me working and being in law school and her being pregnant, but I am just sick of her. I'm glad I work nights and she works days and rarely see her because when I do all we do is argue. I can't remember the last time I had sex with her. Probably a few months ago. I'm sick of her being a frigid ice queen.I'm not the easiest person to get along with. I know that, but I try to be nice and its gotten to the point where I don't even bother anymore. I don't want to leave her. I love my kids too much for that, and frankly she would just fuck them up if I wasn't around. I'd rather be dead than a visitor in their lives. I don't really have a question to ask. I just needed to vent some and I don't trust anyone I know to talk about this.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (2 October 2007):
 Well, I can give you my honest opinion about what I think is going on. I think maybe she needs some attention. Maybe she needs you to initiate a hug or a kiss and tell her that you do not want to fight you just want to talk. I know that you are working hard but just give her the opportunity to tell you what is going on. Sometimes women make the mistake of assuming that a man should be able to figure out what the problem is and how they can improve. It could be something totally unrelated to your relationship that is annoying her, but you are there so she takes it out on you. Sometimes men make the mistake of thinking that a womens problems are so trivial they will work themselves out. Pregnant women are like ticking bombs ready to explode at any given time. I know. I was a crazy women for 9 months. Fighting my husband over everything. Talk to her, but start out on the right foot with a hug or a kiss. Try and hold her hand while communicating. You called her an ice queen, well I say try and melt the ice and get to the root of the issue. Best of luck.
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