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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,I have been out of school for awhile finally started going back and we all are assign to life coaches and the rules are no dating among students and coaches I have a mad crush on this guy that is a life coach he is like the putty I would love to form something out of we have eye contact but that's it because I don't want no one to notice but they do I can't help how my heart feels.So my question to you is why is this rule in this school so strick they know we like each other why stand in the way.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (23 October 2014):
 If it's any consolation, the policy wasn't put there specifically to stand in "your" way. There are rules like this in place at many schools to ensure all students are treated fairly and equally. If this life coach starts focusing his attention on you, it may be at the expense of the student he is supposed to be life coaching. That person is paying for an education too and deserves the best efforts of the educational staff, just as you do. Suppose the shoe were on the other foot and a teacher who was being paid to help you instead spent his time and attention flirting with another student... would you feel happy and comfortable with the education you were getting for your money? Probably not.
If you and this guy truly have a connection, surely those feelings will still exist when he is no longer your teacher and you can date him without breaking policy. At that point you are free to proceed.
Good luck and best wishes.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 October 2014):
 So you won't be treated as a student any differently than any other student. All schools have this rule. Enroll in a different school and then you can date each other. Aren't you a little old to be puzzled by this?
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