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anonymous
writes:My two best friends (who are guys) all-of-a-sudden started being very hateful to my boyfriend. I don't know why, I am clueless. This isn't anything new. We've been dating for three years. Could it possibly be the age difference (of nine years)? Some of their behaviour includes: almost getting into fist-fights, arguing, not being able to stay in the same room... etc...I don't want to have them go through this torture any longer. I need to know what to do.
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reader, BaggiePantsJr +, writes (8 August 2009):
If its all of a sudden its prolly something ur bf said or did and although they are your best friends they prolly wont tell unless you ask just remember how you girls can be....yall go off the deep end for almost anything us guys well we tend to show how we feel and not show and tell how we feel so ask them. Also if all of a sudden they get that oh we just dont like him story and it sounds just a lil too easy just let them know that if u find out differently there gonna be on the oh i dont have time for you and go fuck off list and im sure if they dont want to be on that list they might tell you but then again they may not because they see how much u like this guy well good luck
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 Why don't you find some female girlfriends to hang out with instead? I've found that it's almost always impossible to keep opposite sex friendships from going off track once you become involved with someone you really care about. There will either be jealousy, or competitiveness and both sides get confusing signals if there's attraction involved. It's time you pulled the plug on these guys and ease out of your friendship with them. Things will only continue to get worse now if you don't.
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reader, Basschick +, writes (8 August 2009):
Why don't you find some female girlfriends to hang out with instead? I've found that it's almost always impossible to keep opposite sex friendships from going off track once you become involved with someone you really care about. There will either be jealousy, or competitiveness and both sides get confusing signals if there's attraction involved. It's time you pulled the plug on these guys and ease out of your friendship with them. Things will only continue to get worse now if you don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): If they are your 'best' friends, wouldn't open communication be the most obvious thing to initiate?
Speak with them and ask them the reasons, instead of making guesses and asking questions that no one can possibly answer accurately over the net.
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