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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi, i am very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend.We've known each other for 2years now, and i got into the relatinship knowing he wouldn't marry me due to his family who din't agree his marriage outside of their caste. but we love each other alot so couldn't let go. but last month his mom selected a girl for him and he told me. but he seemed quite alright with it, i found that a bit wierd because i was shattered. he's telling me she's a nice girl and all of that. he talks to her every day, and the other day he asked me a personal question about her which he said she told him, he asked me indirectly but i figured it was about her which he agreed to later. so i really got upset as i had told him not to speak about her to me. I've been wondering if he's getting close to her although he's denying dat. i told him we should break up but he says he loves only me and he's never going to break up with me. he wants me to be with me all his life. i dont know if i should believe him. he's not making me feel secure in this relation anymore. how can he like and keep 2girls at the same time, besides i breakdown everytime he mentions about her and says nice things about her to me. why is he behaving in such a way that i get insecure. because i love him too much to see him with someone else. should i continue this relationship or not?
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reader, raven100  +, writes (8 August 2009):
Hi,The only answer is break up!!!! Why this is so simple? If he cared about you he wouldn't mention about her. Another thing, how can you be with a man that tells you straight in your face that you can't be his wife! If you don't have selfrespect nobody will respect you.Cheer up, find a new nice guy, really, it's that simple, love is just in the air:), you can love another person, I assure you, just don't be weak, don't agree for suffering. Good love just brings happiness.Good luck!R,
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