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writes:Thanks in advance to all who take the time to answer. I have been single about three years. I have dated a bit but not a lot. It seems to me that every man I meet and talk to mentions his wife within about thirty seconds of my meeting him. I am getting a bit of a complex...believe me when I say that a lot of these guys are not Harrison Ford. I am relaxed and friendly and assume they are married which is why I am relaxed and friendly. Might I, without being aware of it be sending out vibes. I am vivacious and vibrant by nature but not flirty at all till I know a guy is available. No worries, every guy I have met in the last year or so is married and I hear about it fast. What gives? It is confusing to me.
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reader, MonicaC  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 The reason they are telling you they're married is quite probably because they find you attractive, but they want to make sure they put their cards on the table so you don't get the wrong impression. They most likely are decent guys who just want to do the right thing. I don't think it has anything to do with a vibe you're sending. You sound like a sweet, intelligent and confident woman. They see that too, but they want to let you know that, while they see it, they are not going to act upon it. That should be reassuring on some level. It means that there are some terribly decent guys out there who are true to their spouses, and when you find the right man, hopefully that man will be just as decent and honorable about keeping his vows to you. :)
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