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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I fantasize about my boyfriend cheating on me, not the sexual part but the part where I find out and he is so sorry and feeling an insane amount of love for me and is so guilty and I am this noble innocent victim. What could this fantasy mean? I think about it a lot, I love the thought of him feeling like sh*t and I don’t have to lift a finger to get showered with love and affection. Its such a perverse fantasy that would kill me in real life. Why do I think these things? Am I a maniac? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Of course you're not. That's the thing about fantasies: they're fun to think about but usually things you don't actually WANT. I fantasize about my husband sleeping with hotter girls than me. It's horrible and I would never want it, but i guess it feeds on my insecurities.
Plus, who wouldn't want to be showered with love without lifting a finger, if only for a day?
~Sy.
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