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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I just want to know why am i such a coward when it comes to girls. Every girl I like I am to cowardly to tell them. The first girl I ever liked I starade at and never really talked to her except in the eith grade(two years after we met). The second girl I liked I just could never bring myslef to tell her how I felt. The third girl I liked I finaly worked up the guts to tell her on the day she was moving but all I really did was say um i um i for five minuets. The fourth girl was a slut so I really don`t care about her. The fith girl that I met this summer, I told her over truth or dare, but I stalled(I like to stall things in general) for a half an hour. And afterwards when she seemed a little pissed, I couldn`t work up the guts to see if we were ok and could still be friends.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (25 July 2010):
I dont think you are cowardly. Just a little shy and unsure of yourself. And many people are like that. But thats ok because girls dont want or expect a guy to march up to them and blurt out how they feel. You dont need to do that because they will pick up on little signs and signals.But staring is a no no. Not many girls like that, they find it rather worrying if you just stare but dont speak to them. So why not trying researching how to flirt? You will learn the art of attracting girls and letting them know you are attracted to them and it will build your confidence. Theres nothing to lose by giving it a try x
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