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*istressvenom
writes:hello im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. the longest relationship of my life. he didnt have a job and was living at his sisters, me and his sister got into a huge fight and now i never go over there. my mom and sister dont really like him because they think he is a loser. he is 23 and i really love him but i just feel like he needed a job and to get his own life, so i broke up with him to make him see he needed to change. well he now has a job, and is soon to be getting a car, but he doesnt understand that i want him to take me out and show me a good time or buy me flowers. he hasnt really ever boughten me anytrhing and even on valentines day i was the one paying for lunch and bought him lots of gifts without recieving anything. so now i want that to change i want him to show me he cares and he just thinks i want his money now, how do i explain to him i just want him to be normal and yes buy me flowers, but also in other ways show me his love?
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reader, AskJoesAdvice +, writes (25 July 2010):
wait so you started dating a 21 year old when you were 16? Is that what the fight was about? Listen why do you need to make this guy do what everybody else does? Just love and support him and let him be him. If you love him you'll like it when he's happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Tell him how you feel that you want him to be more romantic and loveing, he wont know its buging you if you dont say any thing.
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