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*heerwhore23
writes:ok so I feel super ridiculous because I see all of my friends and stuff with their boyfriends and stuff and I can't keep a guy to save my life. A lot of guys like me but I'm super picky..and when I do like someone I get tired of them and move on even if its a great guy!!! I have no idea what to do about it anymore! I want a relationship!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): Hello. Being picky aint a bad thing ,but sometimes you have to understand guys know him more and more and I'm sure that you will find the one. It's just that you don't have to judge him from the first place. You said that lot of boys like you then what are you waiting for? Go for it.so here come the steps: at first you talk to him like friends then you get to know him VERY well then you see if he's the one, if not that doesn't mean that you can't stay friends or maybe best friends.as for moving on,you must FORGIVE if you LOVE but there are LIMITS. But you, you should try to forgive and to think: what if I regret it later on?am I doing the right thing? I know this guy so well him and I should stay together .that's how you have to think if you TRUELY want him and LOVE him though. Good luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 July 2010):
I don't think you're ready to have a relationship at the moment. It's good to be picky to an extent. But when you're going from one guy to another and just getting tired, even when they're good, they maybe you need to slow right down and focus on yourself for a while. You're still young, and having a boyfriend is not nearly as important as making sure you're in a good position in life so you can get a great career an such. I just don't think you're ready yet.
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