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*icole3270
writes: Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. He is a little bit more on the shy side and does not really know how to act around girls when he is sober, or at least that was the vibe I got from him. Anyways, things just kind of got into a complicated mess after he was black out drunk and had sex with some other girl so I just thought it was over. This happened at the end of the school year in April. He felt really bad and apologized to me about it and so I thought things were good between us. It still wasn't good and so I just stopped talking to him all together. We didn't talk at all over the summer either so, I pretty much put it past me and forgot about it. Well, as soon as school starts up this year we see each other and started talking again. This is just small talk like when we see each other. I am really good friends with all of the guys in his fraternity so I knew we would see each other. Well, sure enough we started hooking up again. Now we have been texting each other again and I am so confused as to if he really likes me or just hooking up. All of my friends and some of the guys I have talked to tell me I need to just sit him down and ask him if he likes me or what the deal is? This has been going on for so long now and it either needs to go somewhere or just stop all together. I do have feelings for him but I am just so confused as to what is happening here. People have also been saying that I should ask him to hang out when we are sober but I don't know if I should take the initiative. AH please help!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 just approach it as gently as you can, ask him what does he see you as if he would ever see himself in a relationship with you or are you just a bit of fun to him.
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reader, Nicole3270 +, writes (30 September 2010):
Nicole3270 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I know I should definitely do that now, since everyone is saying so! Any advice on what I should say? I don't want to catch him off guard or seem clingy.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (29 September 2010):
You have your advice right there in your question, the only way to resolve this is to sit him down and ask him were you stand, and this needs to be done when he is sober, there is no other way. good luck
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reader, single gal  +, writes (29 September 2010):
the best thing to do is to follow your friends advice and talk to him and ask him. or you will get hurt somewhere along the line.
sit him down
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