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writes: I'm 17, white. Okay so I've always been attracted to guys of all races, but recently I've been really attracted to black guys. What's with my sudden interest? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 December 2009):
Um, okay, the first poster is confusing me. You are aware that being attracted to black men is not "a phase" to grow out of. You are attracted to whoever you feel attracted to. Period. And the first poster refers to African Americans as if they are just trendy ("don't be influenced by TV or rap music")... African Americans are people. Plain and simple, PEOPLE. Just like anyone else. And not getting pregnant, well that's just common sense. Yes, be careful. And ANYBODY can get you pregnant... white, black, tan, khaki, they all produce sperm. I think it's the first poster who is "confused", not you my dear.
Who knows why you've been eying more black men than usual? I wouldn't worry about the skin color of who you're attracted too. I assume that you like these guys for a lot more than just their skin tone! But, perhaps you suddenly find sable sexy after watching a movie with Taye Diggs or something.
Anyway, I think you're just attracted to who you're attracted to and curious about. And I'm guessing it's regardless of their skin tone! You just happen to be falling for a lot of black guys one right after the other.
Enjoy crushing!! 3
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 December 2009):
I don't see where pregnant comes into this at all...?
Anyways, go with what you're attracted to. I have always been really attracted to black guys too and I'm white. Doesn't really matter, does it?
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