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writes:I broke up with my b/f one month ago due his really bad temper. He has never hit me, but will break and throw things when he gets mad. Sometimes over trivial things. I knew it was best for me to leave him, which of course he threw a fit when I did. My question is this..seems like only 2-3 weeks after I broke up with him he started seeing someone else. I know this shouldn't bother me, but it makes me wonder how he could start seeing someone so soon. he was a great b/f in all other areas except his temper. Why am I feeling sick to my stomach at the thought of him with another woman? I know he didn't change in a couple of weeks, so I am sure she will experience exactly what I did, even if she doesn't stop seeing him for it. I need to stop this obsession I have over him seeing someone right away. Any feedback/advice is greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): You are missing the idea of having a boyfriend; not your actual ex bf. Think about it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Because heart and mind are not the same thing.
You know you are better of without him, but the heart is slow to listen.
Nothing to do but wait for the heartache to pass. It will happen, it always does but that does not make it easier.
Have some fun yourself in the meantime. And no, that doesn't have to be sex, just something fun, you enjoy. A trip, just a weekend in a hotel to relax and only care about yourself.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (10 November 2010):
You clearly made a decision you were better off without him. You need to stick to that thought whenever you think of him with someone else. He's her problem now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): He is just using this girl as a re-bound, if anything you should feel sorry for her not envy her. Be glad you got out when you did.
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