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writes:Hi.I Broke up with my ex boyfriend around christmas time as i realsied it was just a rebound relationship and we were better of as friends.Now i cant help being horrible towards him saying nasty things and always casuing arguments. I feel really guilty about this but i can't help it.why am i being horrible? does anyone have any ideas? he didnt do anything to hurt me.Thanksv
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reader, xcherryx +, writes (5 April 2007):
xcherryx is verified as being by the original poster of the question "I just wonder if you have unresolved bitterness towards your previous ex and you are taking out on this new ex. Do you reckon that could be it?"
You now maybe you are right. i loved and still am in love the person i was with before my ex and maybe deep down i am bitter about what he done to me. maybe that is why i take it out on my ex , whitout even realising.
maybe that might be it.
Thanks so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): I would be interested to know this too since my ex broke our relationship off and wanted to be good friends (I think to be honest ours was a rebound relationship on his part too). He initiates all the contact and it seems like ther e is an underlying bitterness to everything he says to me even though I treated him so well. I don't understand why my ex is treating me like this. He is treating me the exact same way you are treating your ex.
I just wonder if you have unresolved bitterness towards your previous ex and you are taking out on this new ex. Do you reckon that could be it?
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reader, Having Problems??? +, writes (5 April 2007):
i think maybe you like the bad side of him or perhaps you arent normally friends with ex's or maybe you just want him to be angry with you it rely hard to tell
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (5 April 2007):
 Maybe its your way of keeping that extra distance from him. DO you still want to be best of friends? There is a fine line between people when they split whatever the reason. It can be hard to stay level headed because of the emotions involved. Think before you act,is the only answer I can give you if you value his friendship. Unless there is another underlying issue..
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