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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for over 9 months. I recently told him I loved him, and all he did was hug me and didn't say anything back. I gave him about 2 weeks to absorb what I said, and then I finally asked ended up asking him how he felt about me. He said he liked me a lot, so I asked him if he loved me and he said he's not sure. My question is, if he's not sure after being together with me for 9 months, does that mean he'll never be sure? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): Okay, I just found out that it's not that he's unsure, it's more that he was burned his last relationship. He told his last gf he loved her after 6 months, and she didn't feel the same way, so the broke up a while after that. It looks like he loved her so much that he even wrote down what she wanted to name her children! Although he assures me he's moved on (it was over a year and a half before I started seeing him, so over 2 years now), the fact that he doesn't know how he feels about me after so long is sending off warning bells in my head. Any takes on this situation?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 No, in fact it doesn't mean he'll never be sure.It can mean different things; I don't know him.You definitely should ask him what's the difference between "I love you" and "I like you".If you receive any answer from him, think whether it's what you want in this relationship.If you receive no answer from him, he is probably satisfied with this relationship as it is.Whatever is true, if you don't wanna wait until he loves you, don't wait - tell him this too.
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