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30-35,
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writes:I think i have a crush on a boy,but when i am with him i feel like i am with my best friend,and i never think of us kissing or anything. But then there's another boy that i don't have a crush on (i think) and i don't know him extremely well,but i am allways thinking about him kissing me. This is very confusing. What should i do? Now, when i am near any of them i feel strange, and i am very careful in what i say. This is not good. I am not acting like myself.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 well its an easy enough situation - one is your friend, the other is the mysterious crush. not all crushes sprout from knowing someone, alot of them stem from physical attraction. and alot of the attraction has something to do with the fact that you know nothing about them. i wouldnt worry about it at all, you are a teenager and going through perfectly normal feelings. carry on being friends with the guy you know - there is no reason to change anything there, and a little subtle flirting always goes far with a crush!!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (29 January 2008):
 You don't have to act on your feelings. It's perfectly normal to have conflicting emotions and confused feelings about boys that you like and are attracted to. Just because you are attracted to someone, doesn't even mean that you will like him the same way once you get to know him! So, take your time! And it's perfectly normal to feel a bit uncomfortable around the object of your affection, that's what blushing is all about - unfortunately. That's just a part of life, I still blush!
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