A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey! Ok so I have this friend who isn't really a friend cuz she hates my guts, lets call her Alex. Me and Alex stopped being friends last summer when she overreacted about something really stupid like she does all the time. I decided I was done being her puppy and left her alone like she wanted me too. But that is all I ever seem to think about -her! How I wish she was still my friend and just ALL DAY LONG. Do I love her in a way that I shouldn't or is it normal to feel this way? I have never felt sexual attraction toward another female and thinking about it really doesn't sound good to me! And I do have a boyfriend who I pove deeply.. But I'm so confused about why she is all I think about. Please if theres anything you have to say...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 Just because you think about her a lot and you miss her does not mean that you are attracted to her or that she was more to you than a friend. She was a friend of yours and it is obvious you loved her very deeply as a friend more than you actually realised by the sounds of it. You obviously just miss the friendship and her company more than you thought you would. Maybe it is time to sort this out. Why not talk to her and ask her if maybe you could both put the past behind you and try and be friends again. It will probably make you feel better.
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