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writes:I do not how to put this. Just broke with a guy I really loved but what was the problem? I become increasingly jealous of my friend. She is getting married soon to a friend of my boyfriend and asking a bunch of favours from him and me too. Tonight she asked him to drop her to the airport and he accepted without even consulting me! Am I right to be angry? Am I overreacting? I don't like her much, he knows, she is manupulative and always asks for favours but she is having 3 weekend with her boyfriend and my Guy is a driver instead of making out the weekend for us, which I was planning! He thinks I want him to be her boyfriend, which is not true, but I really become unsatisfied with what he does... What shall I do?Cannot go like this, feel miserable and at the same time cannot leave him, too many feelings... But if getting angry at him all time, and jealous of other friends would not work either... Have any had any situation like this? Any useful advice/help..Please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes probabably has given her up.Her constant need to be at the centre f attention, even now when she is getting married, to include everyone she knows into the process is pissing me out. But also my bf constant avalibility for her,makes me to run out of my nerves! I told him, to find after that he rejected bringing her to the airport.But if i have to tell him constantly, what would be the point!? Thank you for your answers ,I should Chuck out the people who makes me feel like this, Your right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): If you have broke up with the guy then what is the problem??? I don't understand this one, or am i reading it wrong? Let them do as they wish if you have split, surely he is now a free agent to drive her whereever she wants to go. Can you get in touch and maybe put me in the picture. Sorry to sound a bit vague.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): How can taking her to the airport ruin your whole weekend? I do think it is a bit soft to be at her beck and call but you are just going to have to agree not to be available so much. Both of you. Is your boyfriend the best man, is that why he is being so heplful? I do think you are being a bit over the top before you need to, but I had a manipulative friend that I gave up for similar reasons and boy was it a relief! Do you think you really want to be her friend - it may be that you should have given her up rather than your boyfriend. Perhaps you have picked up a flirtation between them, maybe, maybe not. Surely she would not be wanting to get married if she was not totally committed to her prospective husband? Thing is that friend I told you I had, always had to be the centre of attention and she was always being suggestive with friends partners. She needed to know that whilst she probably wouldn't do anything about it, she could have them if she wanted. Think hard about the vibes you pick up. Chuck out people who don't give you joy, or who make you uncomfortable in your life. Simple.
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