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writes:Well I'm a senior in high school and put simply I have never had a girlfriend yet and I'm really getting desperate her. I feel more and more that I am losing myself. I'm becoming emotionally unstable to live or function. I feel pain when ever i look t people in love but just recently i don't feel anything like my emotions are finally dying. i don't feel happiness, sadness, love, hate, joy, anything. I also only see logic like a computer. I think with my mind only not both my heart and mind. I also get pains in the chest every time i think about it like my heart is stopping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I also want to add that I haven't even had one of those fake relationships where you go out for a little and it's not really a loving type. Just nothing and my teen years are coming to a close. No first kiss or first love. It sucks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Hi. I feel the sme as u do. I had onli one bf in yr three n that realli wasnt anythin to boast about! I onli jst had mi first real snog!!! I dnt hv a boyfrend, n i blame this on goin to an all girl skl! Im desperate for one, though since ive been goin to a place near me to hang out its been ok coz i can get off with tonnes of random boys. It makes me feel mre special. But I wuld jst realli luv someone who i can also tlk to n will not jst want to make out with me lol but will want to listen to at i hav to say n say that they luv me for who i amnot for my body or the way i make out wit them. I hope we both find someone special, but til then, to feel less lonely do wat i do n go out n have a gd time. It somehow makes you feel betta bout urself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Okay, so you are having trouble getting a girlfriend, its not really the end of the world. you need to put yourself out there, start talking to girls, dont look at them straight away as a possible girlfrend, look at them as frends. coz with them as frends you will make more girlfrends, and this way you will learn to be able to meet/talk to girls. you need to boost your confidence.Go out with your frends, enjoy being young and have fun!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (10 October 2007):
It's all in the numbers. You need to meet and ask out 100 girls to fint the "One." There is no shame in being told "No" 99 times. I think you need to get yourself in gear. Always remember there are many girls out there that are as shy as you.
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