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I need some reassurance here re NOT getting pregnant.

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Question - (10 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi! I've been with this guy going on 8 months now and things are good. We haven't had sex yet, but we do oral and digital and stuff. I don't know why but lately I've been having this fear that I'll end up pregnant even by not having sex. It is one of my greatest fears because of course in less then a year I'll be going to college and a baby would completely ruin my life right now.

Anyways.. I was wondering what are the actual chances of me ending up pregnant. He doesn't cum whenever we're together (he says he can only cum in actual intercourse) so the only stuff that comes out is the pre cum stuff (which still has sperm) but we're usually pretty good about wiping it off and stuff. Like I guess we get pretty close but nothing ever goes in... just touching those body parts... but (sorry this is kinda graphic) never the tip touches... just the shaft... but I'm still scared one lone ranger sperm might decide to hop on in you know?

I know this sounds ignorant and stuff but it really does worry me. Especially after my mom told me she used to get her period while she was pregnant.. so how would I even know? (if i was the same as her)... I don't know why I'm so paranoid but I would really like some help and your thoughts. I also apologize because I know I rambled on a lot.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007):

In the very simplest of terms, you could be putting yourself at risk.

You're right to worry about the lone ranger! That pre-cum contains around 12 million sperm. As soon as the penis becomes erect, that little drop of spooge will arrive without him even knowing it.

Go to

http://www.brook.org.uk/content/M1_game.asp

then click on 'Launch Sperm Catcher' There's a lot more info there as well which will teach you a great deal.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007):

I don't think you have anything to worry about, does it not bother you that your boyfriend doesn't cum when your doing oral? That's the thing that I find most worrying.

If you are worried about getting pregnant though, maybe you should think about going on the pill.

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