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writes:I am 19 years old i have a 1 year old daughter and have been single for a while ..im pretty but i feel like guys dont want me anymore :( so it makes me think of my ex he was abusive and im not getting back with him bt crosses through my mind is it because i have noone else?? Because i dont
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 Your decision to avoid your abusive ex is a GOOD one. Let me congratulate you.
Being alone can be a drag, but it beats being with an abusive ex. If you`re patient, then someone is likely to come along soon. The other poster had an excellent suggestion, to go to places where you can meet people. I know it can be difficult when you have a kid, but it`s certainly not impossible... perhaps you could enroll in school, or take some classes or joing a gym or church? I have made some wonderful friends that way.
Good luck! This is the start of a new year, and I have been thinking positively, that it will be a GREAT year. Be positive! :)
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reader, kenny  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 i know it does not seem like it now, but i can assure you that things will get better, time is the healer of all things. To say that the guy's don't want you anymore is not true, i bet they do. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and get out there, mix it up with others, do things that make your heart sing, and enjoy being young and alive. Sooner or later you will meet someone again, someone who gives you the love and support that you so rightly deserve, and thoughts of your abusive ex will slowly diminish from your mind.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Yes it probably is, that's good insight on your part. Keep strong and wait for someone who is really nice to come along.
It can be hard to meet someone when you are a single parent, but people do and you will. Have a think about how you could increase your chances of meeting new people. Maybe a new hobby or go to some new places? Talk to your family and friends about it.
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