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male
age
36-40,
*ian
writes:Hey Everyone, I've got a dilemma. I've started the process of dating again, and while I've played the field, I've also become very close to two special guys.While one lives out of town (about 2 hours), and the other lives quite close, I can't help but feeling torn between them. The one guy that lives closer to me is pushing to be more serious; and the other guy who lives far also wants to be closer/more serious, but wants some of his life events to settle a bit first (recently single, new job, new home, etc.)So I don't know how to choose one for the other, as I also want to get more serious, but I don't know how long I should wait for distance guy. I've also known distance guy longer, and he means a lot to me... I don't want to break his heart, especially if I pick local guy. Then, there is still the baggage from my ex. While I am over my ex, little things sometimes remind me of him, and I tend to distance myself a bit (usually silent thinking and no-touching kinda thing)... I guess I want to know... who to date, and how to move past the past?Thanks All.
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