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writes: Now that I look back on last year with my b/f--do you think he had too much contact with a ex girlfriend? He said they only spoke once in awhile-but here are the phone calls I KNEW of. Once last august when i was looking through the phone with him him there..i see her name and that is when i first knew about her. One in december when she called him when i was in the car. He tried to pretend it was a guy friend so i wouldn't get mad i guess but i found out it was her. And new years eve, she sent him a text after midnight--which i found a few days later b/c i snooped and called the number. Thats 3 phone calls that i know of in 3 months--i'm guessing that i am right that there were probably more..thanksgiving or a phone call for no reason.Was that too much contact?? He says they don't speak really but now i am nervous with NYE coming up and if she is gonna send him a text. I don't think i will like it at all if it happens. Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Ask him to be straight with you about the whole thing. Tell him to let you know when and if she phones. If he doesn't tell you then i think he is being sly, and why?? My bloke is in touch with his ex because they have two kids, they speak about once a week, but he always tells me. I don't want to know all of their conversation but i don't want them to have cosy chats either and you will be the same. If this really gets to you then you have to ask yourself if you can live with it in the future, if not then move on, life is too short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): he is still with her. if not physically then emotionally. you would have never known that she called if you didn't go through his stuff. you shouldn't have to. he should have told you. you might want to call her and ask her what's up. but if you do that you can not sound like you are attacking her, yu have to be cool, calm and collective. just pretend like you are talking to a friend. if you do intimmidate her she might lie. just get the facts, thank her and say goodbye. if she says they talk all the time, leave him because even if he is not with her, his heart is. and that means that it is not with you. you don,t need that.
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