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Who is the father?

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Question - (11 March 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My lmp was on nov 10, 2009.

I had an affair on nov 19,2009. Used a condom.

first ultrasound On jan 17 i was 7 weeks.

Second ultrasound on feb 24 i was 13 weeks.

Do you think the other guy is the father???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

Gestation period is 266 days.

This would help if there was a time lapse since sex with another.

Sperm is viable in the female body for 72 hours maximum.

Otherwise, DNA is the only answer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010):

And my husband and i have been using the pull out method.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010):

Well let me just add that my due date is sept5,2010.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (12 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntDont take ultrasound dating to have absolute accuracy. I knew for a FACT the date my ex and I had sex which concieved our son, yet to go by he ultrasound dating we would have had to have had sex a week earlier when I know for certain that we didn't.

It is possible for actual conception to take place many days after a sexual encounter, but they were trying to tell me it had occured a week before that encounter when there was not another incident even remotely in the ball park that could have accounted for it.

I think dna testing is the only way you are going to know for certain.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010):

DNA test time.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (12 March 2010):

Frank B Kermit agony auntHave you told your non-affair guy that it might not be his? I am sure he'd like to know too.

-Frank

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (12 March 2010):

janniepeg agony auntYou ovulated on somewhere nov. 25. Your most fertile period: nov. 22-28. Some sperms can live up to 7 days in the uterus. If the condom didn't break the chances are very low for the other guy to be the father. This didn't bring you relief or did it? I heard that sperms from different men fight inside the uterus, for real. Whoever is healthier would have stronger sperms. Don't know if this could be scientifically proven though.

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