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writes:I have a huge crush on this girl, but circumstances make it difficult to do anything about it. I want to get some advice, talk to someone about it, hence why I'm posting this. But I want to talk to someone real, someone who knows me.The problem is, my guy friends, if I say I'm having trouble with this, they'll laugh it off and say something like, "just get with her already".My girl friends, well the ones I can talk to about this, all have access to this girl and could potentially ruin the whole situation for me, cause its really delicate. Also I feel like if I open up they'll gossip about it and I don't want that.And theres no way i'm talking to my parents about it.Who do you talk to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionye thanks for your responses. I've talked to my friends and they've all tried to give me advice, some of it is pretty worthless though haha, but funny. Thanks!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 July 2011):
 I talk to my girl friends, but women are better to talk to about these things than guys. You however do right by not speaking to your girl friends, they might very well ruin it. If you have a girl friend who do not know the girl of your interest, talk to her. If you do not know a girl that is right to talk to I would say talk to your mother. But you don't want to do that either...
I talk to my mother about relationship problems, but each to their own, and I can understand you not wanting to talk, despite your mother being older and wiser.
You then have only one last option: to turn to the online society of either dearcupid.org, or any other online friends you might have. Or simply think of a solution on your own. Taking long walks while thinking helps, and writing the problem down, then reading it over, can also help.
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reader, Stuck.in.love94  +, writes (17 July 2011):
My best friend, or my mum :) Mum's are great to talk to, most of the time they know best :)
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