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writes:dear cupid afew months ago when i was pregnant. i found in my two year boyfriends wallet a photograph of a girl and writen on the back was- keep it with you, i hope you like it- claudia! when he got home i confronted him about this mystery girl, he said it was an exchange student that he used to go out with. i got upset as i think its rather direspectful to carry round a pic of your ex (he didn't think so). anyway i forgave him. soon i had my baby and i found out that he sent this girl pics of our child, which i wasn't pleased about either. now my child is four months and i found e-mails to and from this girl. my bf fliped and turned the computer off b4 i could read them. an when i asked him about them he got all defensive an said i dont trust him!!!! do you think i should be weary of this girl or am i over reacting. Reply to this Question
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reader, maryA +, writes (23 February 2006):
maryA is verified as being by the original poster of the question i dont know what to do. i dont want to leave him because i dont want to break his strong bond with our daughter. i've been here before but i could leave the last time because there was no child. i think im trying to block whats happening now out because i dont want to get hurt the way that i hurt the last time, it really destroyed me and broke me emotionally. it took me a long time to recover and i think im tryin to kinda ignore whats happening so that i dont get hurt again.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (22 February 2006):
 You are upset because your boyfriend is emotionally cheating on you. Even if the world in general states that keeping friends of the same sex that your sexually attracted to is ok, no one's heart believes it. Your boyfriend is only thinking of himself right now, you need to step up and start thinking of the protectection your child. I suggest you talk to a lawyer about child support and your rights. Talk to your family about what is going on, to get the support you need right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): You should be weary. Talk to him about it, that you feel uncomfortable, but also tell him that you don't mind him communicating with his ex as well. Rather on enforcing your demands, you should and him should make compromises for each other.
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