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anonymous
writes: Okay I'm going out with someone, who I like as an older brother, and well my crush from like the being of the semster just asked me out and I don't know who if I should go out with him or just stay with the guy I'm with.
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reader, dave green +, writes (13 May 2009):
Well, its very simple...You shouldn't be going out with the guy you like as an older brother because its kind of stringing him along.Whether you decide to go out with the crush is another thing. Are you sure he really likes you? He may have asked you out, but does he have a thing against your boyfriend? would he want to hurt him? Does he know you have a boyfriend even? If he knows you have a boyfriend, and is still asking you out, its a little heartless of the guy in my opinion, but then sometimes the heart has a will of its own.Just make sure you are honest with the guy you are going out with. Tell him that you really like him as a friend and love being around him, but that you can't be his girlfriend.hope everything works out!
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reader, pink15 +, writes (13 May 2009):
Get to know your crush better...that way, you know who he really is. Also, try making a pro and con list for both guys and make your decision.
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