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writes:Hi. Ladies, who would you rather sleep with:1) Guy who is superconfident and very successful who has a great sense of humour, but is not particularly good looking and although he fancies you he does not have feelings for you as such.or2) Guy who is confident and successful, but less so than guy no.1, but who is better looking than guy no.1. He is slightly repressed around you since although he fancies you, he has feelings for you which inhibit him slightly (and you know about this). He has a better body than guy no.1 and is taller than guy no.1 and has hair whereas no.1 is bald.Answer me that one, then!Loving you heaps! Many thanks.[Moderator's note: It may benefit you more if you describe your situation in the first person... You can always add more information as an update.] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Many thanks, all! Well indeed - I was guy no.2. You know how life works - she'll probably pick guy no.3! Anyway, as regards whether I have a sense of humour I can categorically say that I have none whatsoever, suffice to say that if she's into bald men then in another year or so she's bound to develop the hots for me! ;o)I think feeling comfortable around a guy is important, so perhaps that's where guy no.1 is scoring more points than me at the moment i.e. I tend to be continually in the process of breaking the ice. Once the ice is broken then I think I stand a real chance. Until then guy no.1 is probably ahead on points...Thanks again for your help - which I found very encouraging!
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 I can not imagine sleeping with a guy who does not have feelings for me. Guy number 2.
Let me guess, you were guy number two and the girl picked guy number 1?
Here are a few reasons a girl might pick guy number 1:
1) he is attractive to her-more so than guy number 1
2) she wants the financial security
3) she has low self esteem and doesn't want a guy who thinks she's great
4) the sense of humor won her over (you didn't mention guy number 2 had one
5) guy number 1 makes her feel more comfortable and she is happier around him
6) she has a thing for bald men
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 2twodosII
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reader, starfairy +, writes (12 October 2008):
 This seems a bit of a silly question...If you had 2 guys who were essentially both confident and successful, one isn't good looking and doesn't fancy you, the other one is good looking but a little shy but actually has feelings for you...You ask what guy a girl would go for??!!LOL...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Definitely guy number two, this is not even a contest
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Number 2 definitely, he actually cares for you and is better looking. Why sleep with a man who doesn't feel anything for you even if he is successful etc. I would want to feel loved.
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