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writes:I meant this guy, who is 30 years old. He recently lost his job. We have been dating for 5 months. I am confused because of the simple fact that he asks me for money. I am not sure if he is trying to use me, or because I’m his girl he feel as though I should help him out. . (Question Number 2)After two months of dating he asks for me to married him, just so know he is a foreigner in the US. I am confused if he is the one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): If you're confused at all whether he's the one, he probably isn't.
If he lost his job, asked you for money and then proposed to you (although he clearly is in no position to pay for the wedding), it sounds like he's using you for financial reasons.
You have to decide if you're OK being his provider and citizenship-giver. Once he gets his citizenship and your money, do you think he'll stick around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): He is using you If he isn't job seeking, if he is job seeking chances are he's not just some lazy slob draining your wallet.
But you've only been dating 5 months?!!! He clearly sees you as easy to get what he wants from!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): He is a 30-year old foreigner in the US who just lost his job. He needs money and asks you to marry him after two months.
Honey - yes, he is using you. He is taking advantage of your age and using you to get money and a green card. Get out of this relationship pronto!
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