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writes:i and my fiancee loved each other the way two lovers should loved each other. but suddenly, i noticed that she spends money that the source is not properly cleared to me. each time i asked her, she tell me the source of the money but i am not satisfied. i am scared if she has not been taking money from some other guy. her character does not prove enorgh trust in her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Good one Uncle Phil! Can you ask her for the address, i could do with some extra cash.
Why do you not trust her and believe her answer? I would be gutted if i was with a bloke who didnt believe me. Talk to her and say you are concerned.
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 I think Uncle Phil and I ran into the same chick. Is your finace's name Josephine. I corresponded with her last year (you can read the sordid details on my Myspace page) Any way I caught on to her game and strung her along setting a trap with her helped by a mutual friend in Nigeria. Long story short, she got arrested and is now serving time for email fraud and various sex crimes (don't worry, i used protection....anti virus for the email, I didnt have sex with her).
Anyway, knowing how corrupt the Nigerian government is I wouldnt doubt if she slept her way out of jail by now. I hope, my friend that you are not connected with her.
But seriously...
If my girlfriend was making money with an unknown source, I too would think the worst...dare I say prostitution. How well do you know her, really? She may be your fiance but who's to know what she is hiding? Before you go through with marrying her you have to uncover this unknown money source. If she's not being up front with you that's a problem in itself, so I advise caution with this relationship. Find your answers and then decide your path.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Trust is very important in a relationship and you need to get to the bottom of where this money is coming from. It could be that there is some other reason than the one you think that she is hiding where she got it from.
You need to consider whether she is telling you the truth, and ask yourself why you think it is from some other guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Could she perhaps be sending out thousands of emails to unsuspecting punters in other countries, claiming to be the wife of an exiled Nigerian diplomat who needs details of their bank accounts so that she can transfer millions of pounds or dollars or whatever out of their bank account in Nigeria in exchange for a percentage of the proceeds, only to steal money from those unsuspecting peoples' accounts?
Just a thought.
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