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writes:This is a pretty weird situation I guess, well getting too it, i've got a boyfriend, been with him a while, had sex 3 times over a weekend away, now we're kinda stuck for where to have sex, and we're going to go to shit if we don't keep the sex life up. Basically, when he's around my way, we can't do it at mine cos I technically don't have a room, and can't go to his cos his is his granddads, so, where can we do it?? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): Some might question the ethics of this but we've found certain disabled toilets in our university to be excelent..Very roomy, clean up is easy, and as it's a single room toilet we can lock it and usually you don't get anyone waiting..If you do it's a bit dodge but much less than other places and all in all we've found it to be totally worth it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks jessica thats an awesome answer lol and other people, what I mean when I say we'll prob go to shit if there isn't any sex, I mean like, I think sex is a crucial part to a relationship, is has been in all mine anyway, my theory is if you dont have sex with eachother then someones gonna get so frustrated that they chuck it in. It's not that we dont have much of a relationship together cos we really do, we just go together, we click, all in all I just dont wanna lose that intimacy that we have cos its something really rather special :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): If sex is what's holding your relationship together, you probably don't have much of a future with this guy. Just saying.
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reader, vanessadazed  +, writes (7 March 2009):
the car lol.
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reader, Tomas +, writes (7 March 2009):
"we're going to go to shit if we don't keep the sex life up"
I'm not sure that I understand this, but if you mean that you think you will lose him if you don't have sex with him regularly, expect a lot of people to (rightly) be concerned that you two as a couple don't sound ready for sex.
We will worry that you are being used and will likely get hurt at least emotionally. That while x often becomes an important part of a relationship, sex as the most important part is almost never healthy, especially when you are younger and have a lot of other things to learn about being a couple with someone.
Now, if you mean something else, you should probably explain that for us, so we can better answer your question.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Lol! I totally don't want to advocate juvenile delinquency, but my old BF and I used to do it in our schools theater in the very dark back corners. We also did it in a back corner of our Uni's library. And we did it in his car a lot! We also got very masterful at timing our parents schedules to know almost to the minute when they would be home.
It makes it hard to have long, passionate lovemaking sessions, but sometimes all you need is a quickie ;)
Please be safe though and use condoms. They also make cleaning up after wards a breeze, which is crucial if you are having a romp in the broom closet.
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