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writes:I am a 20 year old male and I am in love with this girl. I have never met her in person. I have met her on the internet a long time ago and now we text each other almost every day. We are very good friends and are really close even though we never met. I have been madly in love with her for a while. She is the only woman I wanna be with for the rest of my life. She knows how I feel for I tell her every day. She says she does not feel the same about me. However I think she secretly has feelings for me deep down inside. For one thing I know she really wants to have sex with me and we end up having phone sex and cyber sex all the time but she will not meet me in person to have sex with me. Whenever we have made plans to meet she always bails. She won't even meet me as just a friend to hang out. She claims she's not ready. She really wants a boyfriend and is really lonely yet she says she's not really fit and too emotional to date and she said she is afraid she will hurt me because she says I'm no good for her. She also said she is afraid I will hurt her cuz she's been hurt too many times. The other day when she was drunk she asked me to marry her and have kids. I mean she sometimes acts like she loves me and wants to be with me but she claims she has no feelings. What do you guys think about the whole situation? How do you think she really feels? I'm so confused. thanks
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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 "For one thing I know she really wants to have sex with me and we end up having phone sex and cyber sex all the time but she will not meet me in person to have sex with me."If you have never met her before, why are you talking about having sex with her when you first meet? I think thats enough to scare anyone from meeting for the first time. You should be talking about having a couple of drinks with her one evening and then take it from there, instead of trying to jump straight into her knickers.
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