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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Nearly for two years I have been trying to move on from this guy. When I was dating him, he messed me about so I moved on with my life. Last year he contacted me and explained when he was seeing me he was trying to get over his ex and he apologised. He was hurt at the time. We arranged to meet up but he let me down on the day as he had no money to catch a train and see me. I decided to get on with my life and then 10 months later he contacted me again. I explained it wasn’t a good time as it was my final year at uni. Some how I ended up talking to him online, he said he still likes me and he wanted to see me. I couldn’t see him as I weren’t ready too. I thought it was best if we remained as friends. Then I started to bond with him and develop feelings again. I was going to arrange to see him after my exams but I found out he met someone else. I told him to never contact me again. The point is I am having trouble moving on from this guy. Is there any advice you can give me please? Do I start dating other people? I am tired of trying again and getting hurt from this guy.Thanks
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 If you are tired of trying again and again and getting hurt, the TRY WITH SOMEONE ELSE. It does not matter if he comes back into your life, what matters is if you let him in or not. How do you ever expect your true soulmate to come into your life, if you prevent him from coming in, becuase your loser ex keeps taking up his space?
-FBK
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 May 2007):
 I think you have to date other people. Do you think someone who really loved you would treat you badly, not be able to scrape together a train fare, put you through emotional hell when you were doing your finals and date other girls in the meantime? My guess is no. The only person who can end this hurt is you. Make the decision to sever all ties and stick to it. You know its the right thing to do.
CD
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