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writes:my boyfriend and i make love frequently but when we do he never touches my breasts or between my legs, have you any idea why this might be? I've asked him but he won't give me an answer he just tells me to stop being silly.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 January 2010):
Sweet cupid is talking rubbish. Sorry but just had to slip that in. If he found you unattractive then why would he be with you?
It sounds to me like he's just a bit rubbish in bed. He doesn't have pleasing you by stroking your body on his list of priorities.
It could be that he's not that experienced and porn tells men that having a big penis and shoving in and out fast enough is enough to please a woman.
Tell him you want him to touch you there, or put his hand there when you are having sex.
If he's still not interested then you might want to tell him you can't be with a man who's not going to try and turn you on. Bad sex is just not acceptable in a relationship if he's not willing to change.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 January 2010):
It depends on his upbringing. He might just feel uncomfortable doing it because of his beliefs. Try taking his hand and gently moving it around for him, so he knows it's all right.
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reader, SweetCupid +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Maybe some part of you is unnatractive to him(no offence)? Is he a lot younger than you? Do you always make sure you have shaved your pubic hair before you have sex with him? He may find hair unnatractive. Try doing something kinky to get him more turned on. Good Luck !
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