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writes:Hi,Im a guy and I have a question for both genders. Im a bit inexperience with relationships. When is the topic of sex brought up in a relationship?How long should a relationship be? 3 months? Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, questionquestion +, writes (14 July 2012):
questionquestion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks that makes sense
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reader, jinxx +, writes (11 July 2012):
 I think it differs between couples. I usually bring it up relatively early, because I'm not one for waiting and if either one of us has any issues/questions for the other person, I like to get those out of the way.
Mind you, talking about sex and having sex are different things. If you're asking WHEN to have sex, that depends on what you guys want. There's no set time when you should be having sex, or not having sex - it's up to what you're both comfortable with.
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reader, I love TDG  +, writes (10 July 2012):
 Well, last relationship I was in, my girlfriend and I were talking about sex in under a week (She started it :P). Some might say we were moving way too fast, but we both felt we were ready. We had been spending almost every moment of that week together and spending nights talking to eachother for hours.
When you feel like the time is right to bring up sex, do it. You shouldn't force yourself to wait a certain amount of time if you don't want to, as long as your partner is comfortable with it.
But I'm not saying to try to get into someone's pants on the first date, make sure you have both been talking long enough to where you feel like you can talk about anything to eachother.
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