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Should I begin to ignore my crush in the hopes he'll want to flirt with me? What do you think?

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Question - (28 September 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

Last night when we were talking online, my friend (we'll just call her K-K), told me (for about the millionth time) that I need to get over my crush, whom I've been liking for about two years now. She told me that he's just a jerk and that he's not worth it and a lot of other things like that.

Then, I asked her if she had any suggestions on how I could at least become closer to him as a friend if nothing else. She told me that she thinks I should just ignore him until he starts flirting with me the way he always used to do and then go back to being his friend. I've been thinking about trying it...but I don't know if it will work. And I also don't know if I can handle ignoring him for that long. I mean, who knows how long it could take for him to start treating me like he used to? Do you think it will work? Should I go for it? Any help is greatly appreciated.

SP

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

well i think you shouldn't forget about him because the more you want to get him out, the more you let him in. If that isn't helpful then try to be his friend, but act mormal around him; act like you don't like him until he hopefully falls in love with you.Just listen to your heart.Good Luck!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006):

HI there,

You could quite easily waste years of your life on this guy. I have experience of this myself, and so do friends of mine. When the guy comes along who you don't haveto play games with, you will know about it. He will like you and you will like him. Iknow how hard it is believe me, but forget about anyone who you best friend calls a jerk. Love Vanessa

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):

Toria agony auntDoes your crush know how you feel for him?

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