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writes:Yo everyone, i have a... well not a problem, it's just that my girlfirend wont "cum". I dont have a problem with it, but it just seems strange. I mean, we have sex, sure, and when i come i take "it" out and start masturbating her, and she gets an orgasm... i think. Well, sooner or later she takes my hand away and maybe that's why, but i'm not sure. Please help?Another problem i have is that she didn´t bleed when we did it the first time. I know, she might not be a virgin, but she was 14, and i was 15 so don't think she had done it. Why could that be?
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 The reason I move my boyfriend's hand away is because he is hurting me! He is rubbing too hard!
Boys have a tendency to treat the clitoris like it is a an x box game stick when they should be touching it like you would pet a kitten.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Thanks everyone! I will try and do as you say, man, this is a great webpage!
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reader, Moximc  +, writes (7 August 2008):
Women bleed the first time they have sex because a membrane across the vagina, called a hymen, gets broken. Not all women bleed because some are born without a hymen, some break it through sports like horse-riding, and some break it through using tampons or experimenting by putting things in the vagina [I did this when I was about twelve]. I tend to move my man's hand or head away when I've had an orgasm so I'd say your girlf is doing the same. But ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): hmmm welll to be honest i often move my boyfriends hand away after purly because it begins to hurt after a while... once you've reached you climax if you carry on it begins to hurt and get irritaing... so it reallyy doesnt have anything to do with you personally... so there nothing to worry about darling its just something us girls do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): The most important thing is communication. I know it sounds cheesy, and you may be really embarrassed, but just asking her why may give you the answer you need. After reaching an orgasm, sexual organs become very sensitive, so it might be that once she has climaxed she is moving your hand because it is too sensitive when you feel her. Just try asking her about it.
Not all women cum from vaginal stimulation. Try oral sex, playing lightly with her clitoris using your tongue and lips, if you're both ok with it. It may give her the reaction you crave and you'll definitley know if she orgasms when your mouth is handling her holy parts.
Hope this helps.
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