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writes: when is the right time to say i love you to a girl? because i have a girlfriend that i have been going out with for nearly 3 months and i haven't actually said it to her beacuse i don't no if its to early to say and i don't want to put her off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): I think three months is long enough to say I love you. If you and your girlfriend enjoy the quality time you both have in this relationship then I think its fine. But before you say those three words ,have a chat with your girlfriend about what you both want from this relationship, whether she wants a serious commitment or just hang out together and see what develops. There are other ways to show her that you care, buy her flowers or a gift, i feel action speaks louder than words. Good Luck
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Now is a good time, 3 months is reasonable. If you feel it, say it.
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reader, kenny +, writes (14 January 2007):
 I think the right time to say i love you differs in many different people. It all depends on how you both feel, and how the relationship is progressing.
You will know how you feel in your body if you love this girl, and also if the love is reciprocated by your partner.
If you truly believe you love this girl, choose the perfect moment to tell her, like over a candle lit dinner, or watching a sunset go down over the horizon. Seize the moment and make sure it will be remembered forever.
Good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 January 2007):
 It depends when you feel it. If you're absolutely 100% sure it's love you're feeling and not lust then say it because love is reciprocal and it's very hard to feel happy and in love if the other person doesn't return at least some of your feelings! Hope this helps.
CD
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