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writes: My girlfriend and I have been together a while and have a committed and loving relationship. We have talked about having sex. My question is when is a good age to start exploring sex and a sexual relationship? When is a good age for my girlfriend? We both believe that sex is one of the steps to manhood for me and womanhood for her. Ladies do you have any advice on when it is a good age to start exploring sex and a sexual relationship?What are some ways to start exploring sex and having a sexual relationship? How can I make it good for her? Ladies do you have any advice on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (10 July 2009):
A good age is when you and your partner are BOTH ready, willing, and able to understand and accept the consequences of what you are doing. That includes not only pregnancy and disease, but also the emotional well-being of each other.
Contrary to what you believe, sex isn't a step to adulthood. Rather, it is privilege you may enjoy after you have become an adult.
You and your G/F can experience a lot of fulfillment (and have a lot of fun!) learning together about the physiological mechanics of sex. It's not difficult if you are both unselfish and communicate well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): I don't think there is a certain age, I think you just know when it feels right. And being in the relationship you describe sounds perfect! For your first time, it's best to be with someone you know intimately on many other levels already - speaking as a woman I think that helps us loosen up and enjoy it more. It's a very unique feeling for her, having someone inside her, and it might seem strange at first. Take it slowly, in the lead up, penetration and thrusting. And if either of you feels uncomfortable or nervous at any time, just relax or cuddle until you feel ready again. Your sex life together will evolve over time, so look on it as an exploration and an even closer connection between the two of you.
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reader, Hermetica  +, writes (9 July 2009):
What a great time you are at in your lives.Young love is a beautiful thing!Ah the memories come flooding back.Before we go any further,do either of you have a religious background that restricts your own thought processes?At the end of the day you are now adults and intelligent enough to make up your own minds.You and your partner have clearly discussed your relationship in an open an honest way.If the moment is right it will happen,afterall it does to everybody.Try not to analyse too much,take your time.Sex the first time is unique for everybody.Just ensure your partner truelly wants to take this step as much as you do.You will learn from each other.I wish you well.Hermetica
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