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When I'm left alone I have terrible thoughts, about people who I'm very close to, dying or becoming very ill. Why does this happen?

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Question - (25 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2008)
A female Australia age 36-40, *essie Jay writes:

Hey,

I have a wonderfuly life. I love living. I think life is the most beautiful of gifts. Today I am truly truly happy.

However. Often when Im left alone I have terrible thoughts, about people who Im very close to dying or becoming very ill.And I cry, a lot.

Its stupid, coz I am truly very blessed. As I said Im very happy with life, in no way am I depressed. Why do I have such terrible thoughts when Im alone?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

Late night alone, we all think horrible thoughts. I think of my dad dieing all the time (don't get me wrong i lvoe him dearly). I think it may be because your so blissfully happy at the moment that when your away from the people that make you happy, you let yourself experience what it'd be like if they were truly to leave, a kind of preparation for rejection, a safety net if you like.

anyways that is just my thoughts

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A female reader, Nessie Jay Australia +, writes (25 July 2008):

Nessie Jay is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hey - I thought I had answered you though on my screen it doesnt seem to have come up so incase, I will write again. Nope - I dont think the worst possibly scenarios. I just have terrible thoughts when Im alone. I use to love being alone - 'my time' now its awful, if I have nothing else to do, I have awful thoughts.

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A female reader, Nessie Jay Australia +, writes (25 July 2008):

Nessie Jay is verified as being by the original poster of the question

nope, its just when Im alone and have nothing else to think about realy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

You haven't really given many details, but perhaps you have some kind of anxiety disorder. When you call someone and they don't pick up, do you automatically think the worse possible scenario, such as they died in a car accident?

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